Guys, pay attention to the women from your lives!

So we all read the articles on how to "Make her Happy," and to "Keep her for life." But have you ever thought of how to show her that she means the world to you? We as women, often hear "I love you" alot, and adore it. But what we want is to be shown that we are adored, as women, but also as individuals. No hate when this is stated, but sometimes men forget to treat us with the upmost love. They don't do everything that we fell in love with at the beginning, and all we have now is a guy who became comfortable with us and thinks that we aren't going anywhere. Well here's some help for you guys to show her that she DOES mean the world to you!

 

 STEPS

1. The Little Things mean alot. Most men don't get this concept, most think that women want the biggest and baddest things. Which is true, some do. But most women love to be told of how much you love them in the small examples. Some ideas are a handwritten card, a few roses, a unexpected phone call just to check up on us, or just a simple text saying that you were thinking of us. Those things make women feel like they have the best men in the world.

2. Don't put your guy friends over your lady. Yes, there is a time and place for you to spend time with the guys, but women feel forgotten and unimportant when you decided to spend her time with your guys. Make time with your guys BUT let your lady know far ahead in advance so she feels like you remembered her as well.

3. When you're hurt, let her fix it. Women are natural born fixers. They magically heal the little boy's scrapes and bruises with a single kiss, and the cut finger with a simple band aid and hug. Females have this magical ability to take what is hurt, and broken, and put it back together. But guys, the longer you wait to let her fix it, the more she feels incompetent because she's made to do things like this.

4. Don't always stay at home. Take your woman out on a date, and don't ask. When you start to ask her and let her decide all the time, it takes the romantic feelings out of the date.

5. Women LOVE surprises. Females love to have their guy do things without them having to ask and hint multiple times. They love it when guys take the lead and don't always have to be asked or told.

6. Women don't like to feel used. Here's the Raw in this sentence: Guys tend to sometimes have women do things for them, to then forget about that women and go on with his thought processes. It's a big no-no. Women want to be kept, and remembered. Not do something for their man because he begs, and then to be given a smidge of time later. In a relationship for a women in her head, it's not going to go very well after that.

7. Tell her you love her. Women think that the word 'Love' is more than you wanting sex, or you just saying it. Simple ways of telling her that she's beautiful -not cute because that's reserved for pre-teens- or holding her close, showing ways that you're thinking of her, will offer her more than one reason to know that she is loved.

8. Last but not least, Don't forget how fragile your woman is. Sometimes women may act like they're tough on the inside and out, but they're not. Their heart's are fragile, and they take things to heart. They're emotional which sometimes comes off as being dramatic, when actually they're only doing what they know best on how to express their feelings. Simple harsh words to a woman can make or break her, and easily kill her heart. When you ignore a woman, it can break her hope in you. Our trust can easily be given, and then never be shown again. Yes, guys are fragile in their own ways too, but females were made in a way that a man cannot know. So guys, treat your woman like it's the last day on earth you have to spend alive.

Advices:

• Say I Love You Often, as well as show it in your actions.
• Give her compliments.
• Tell her how much she means to you.
• Give her the small things in life, and she will give you the world.
• Remember her no matter what.

Warnings:

• Don't use anything just to be intimate with a lady, she will never trust you again.
• Don't stop being what she fell in love with the first time she met you, or she will feel like she doesn't matter.
• Don't throw something back in her face, she will act like she's fine but it will cut her deeper than you know.