Egypt - The Mother of the World - part I

 Bismillahi Rahmanu Rahim!

Once upon a time, there was a land where the Sun was sacred! That land was Egypt! Today, Egyptians offer you their most precious treasure: the Sun! Egypt - where all begins! Nothing compares to Egypt! Egypt - Mother of the World!

I just love this video so much and I was thinking to share it here...  Today I want to describe Egypt - Masr - Om el Donya...

When I speak to someone about Egypt, I see that people get fascinated... but they are like this because they see Egypt from the side of curiosity, from the side of a tourist... people who don't actually feel the soul of Egypt, can't reach the heart of this country.

My beloved husband call me "the daughter of Egypt" "enty benty Masr"... he knows and understands, as also he is not jealous at all because my heart was kidnapped 20 years before I met him, by Egypt. Therefore, he is so proud with this, as he is with my knowledge and reading about Islam, years before we found each other. 

When I speak about Egypt, I get confused and I have millions of ideas in my mind how to describe it. Some are seeing Egypt as the land of pharaohs, the place of the pyramids, and Sphinx, sand and dust, Red Sea and the resorts from there... for someones Egypt is similar with the best vacation they had or with the riding of a camel... 

Others see Egypt as a country of Third World, so poor and dirty and after they have the chance to see it once, they came back to their ordinary life with the idea: "Egypt - yeah... so much dirty there and omg... did you notice the smell from the streets? and those people how they live??? horrible"... 

None of the situations above don't actually contain the view with the heart, the view with the soul, as a simple person... not the tourist who comes and goes, who's unique desire is to have a real "cool" story to say it when he returns home! Visiting a place, even if it is or not Egypt, has nothing to do with the thing "to be cool"! You can be "cool" too even if you feel and breath the feeling and the soul of the places you walk, you can be "cool" even if you stop a moment to admire and see what others can only imagine and hope that one day, they will see!

 

Allah have granted me the possibility to visit many countries from Europe before I reach Egypt... I still remember when I first visited Le Chateau Versailles - I was 19 years old... the minute we entered inside and I saw the beauty from there, my heart was like stopping... I could hardly breath... I was looking to all the amazing things creating by humans hands and keep thinking that Allah gave us the possibility to create beauty, as also the possibility to destroy it! 

When we reached Nothe Dame and Sacre Coeur, my eyes and my entire body were swimming in tears and keep thanking to my parents, to Allah - that they have made this dream possible for me! I still remember even now how my father was so proud to hear that the high school selected me to represent the city in France to the IUFM Arras - L'Institute des Maitres" - my father did everything that time to make sure I will be there!

After this first chance to see the world with my eyes, Allah gave me other opportunities and one of the most precious is the one when I first visit Egypt.

 

The first thing I remember from that trip is the people from outside the airport after I arrived. I keep see in my mind not the clear images, but many people dressed in white clothes, brown or black and from one place to another, a spot of blue or green or red color... the spots were the women... Little voices you could hear all the parts - kids jumping next to their parents... taxi drivers who were asking you if you need a cab or not, hopping to have a new customer, so that at the end of the day, to return home with some pounds... they know that the tourists can be generous, especially the Europeans and they count on this!

It is impossible not to feel as soon you get out of the airport, the hot dry wind of the Egypt and the power of his ancient God - RA! No wonder that in Antiquity the ancient Egyptians were seeing the sun as their God - RA and were so happy that they are blessed by His gifts.

 As soon I got in the cab, my mind relaxed again and I started to enjoy the view. Some of you could think that what view??? Sand and Dust? well YES! for some.. but for me was more!I was following the line of the road with my eyes and watching the sides to see behind the dunes... I was keep thinking all the time to the wonder of those sand mountains and how that the powerful wind was not vanishing them from years... Because the wind is so powerful!!!!

When I reached the hotel, I remember that the manager, an Italian lady was waiting for me and I was amazed to see a non local actually living and working there and feeling so good!!! But more amazed I was when I heard her speaking Arabic with the employees and give them particular requests!And I can tell now after years, that she is not the only one! 

When I was entering in a fruit shop (I am crazy about fruits!!!), the seller from there was always having with him 2 little assistants: his 2 little boys, all contrary with what I was hearing before - that women are the only ones who take care of the kids and are the only ones responsible for them! The kids were so shy, but with really good manners.

All the parts I was going, you could see all kinds of people: from tourists to locals Egyptians as non locals too... in every shop you enter, even you don't actually buy something, the seller was thanking you for visiting his shop:"shokran ya oustez/ shokran ya anisa". I hear many times from the tourists who went in Egypt that the sellers were after them to make them buy something from them... well... I wonder if those tourists ever informed before how to avoid these situations and what to say to sellers (we don't speak about the sellers from the stores, but from the ones near to the touristic points - pyramids, Sphinx, etc). 

Believe me, it is enough to say a simple "No, thank you sir" or "La/a, shokran ya ustez" and they will not continue to bother you! After all, no matter how poor they are many of the Egyptians, all of them possessed the Egyptian proud! Also, we have to think that this people are living from the trade with tourists and to sell their products, they just can't stay like statues and wait, maybe a tourist will go and buy something from them! I mean... let's face it... if you see a local Egyptian sellerr and you are for the first time in Egypt... would you just run to him to buy quick souvenirs? Me I was not knew what to do first and where to go first! 

Tourists are the "kawaaga"... the ones who come to see Egypt and take a part of Egypt with them when they return... because Egypt leaves marks in everyone of us, after we saw it! And some of us, wish and pray to come back...

Speaking about wishing... I remember that I found a fountain and I dropped a coin on it, wishing from all my heart to come back in one year! AlhamdulilAllah, it happen and after one year I returned in Egypt, that time as the fiancee and the future wife of my beloved husband.

To tell you the truth, when I was in France... I dropped coins in all the fountains from Versailles and Paris, wishing to come back... but  don't think I actually did it with the wish in my heart! I did it because I saw others doing this thing and I said..."Me too"...

When I returned in Egypt, this time I was seeing the Egypt from other side... as a future local from there... as a future wife of an Egyptian... many of you could think that the first trip in Egypt was the one who bring together me and my husband... As a matter of fact... it was Allah's hands and our destiny... because nothing guarantees you that a true friendship can turn into real love and a blessed marriage! But that time... none of us was searching to get married and sure not with a foreigner... 

The man that is my husband he was actually having my destiny in his hands from years before he knew me... my destiny locked in a stone... jade stone... When I look now to the jade necklace, I see on it my past, my present and my future...

Egypt was preparing my destiny from far away... I can look back and see a little girl carrying a huge book in french language about ancient Egypt... I look back and I see a teenager drawing Egyptian antique images... I look back and I see a young lady devouring documentaries and movies about Egypt from yesterday and Egypt of today... I can loo back and I can see a sleepy student reading about the Mystery of Egypt... I look back and I see me... 

But when I look to now and in front, I see US together... I see family...

Egypt has everything what you can find in all the other countries and even more! Egypt has luxury and poverty, technology and rudimentary ways, Egypt has cleaning and dirty, sand and dust as also so good roads, good people as bad ones, children, women and men, old and young people, hard workers and lazy ones, single and married, divorced, Muslims, Christians and other Non Muslims ... shortly Egypt has everything that could make you feel home or stranger... it depends on the eyes of the one who see Egypt and on each one of us way to feel the breathing of this country! And lately Egypt got back something so precious: Freedom!

Above of this, I can tell you for sure that for the Egyptians, the dust of Egypt is much more precious than anything in this world!

Ya Masr Om el Donya!

Fashionable Muslimah

Fashionable hegabs and different ways to wear veils 

Who says that a Muslim woman can't be fashionable? That she can't be modern and stylish and chic? If we take good care of ourselves and we never forget that we are WOMEN and how our husbands fall in love with us and for what, we don't have to be worried that he might ever look to somebody else... and sure we have to use our wisdom and our quality of women so that our husbands see in us all the women in this world, all the women that they need in their lives: friend, lover, sister, wife, the child, the crazy one, the wise, the silly, the sexy one... and the list can go on...

I invite you to see some veils that I really love and definitely I tried too because I just simply love and adore all what is Fashionable ;).



 

 

So don’t you see?

That I’m truly free
This piece of scarf on me
I wear so proudly
To preserve my dignity...
My modesty
My integrity
So don’t judge me!




Also, there are some tutorials about how to make a veil, a hegab that can be so fashionable, but also respecting the meaning of the hegab.

LOVE in different shapes and ways of expression

Those three little words, "I Love You", hold a lot of meaning, but there's more ways to say them than you think. Here are 101 different ways for you to verbally express your love to your sweetheart. 

• I adore you.
• I am infatuated with you.
• I appreciate you.
• I can't live without you.
• I can't stop thinking about you when we're apart.
• I cherish you.
• I dream of you.
• I live for our love.
• I love being around you.
• I need you by my side.
• I need you.
• I respect you.
• I value you.
• I want a lifetime with you.
• I want you.
• I worship you.
• I yearn for you.
• I'm a better person because of you.
• I'm blessed to have you in my life.
• I'm devoted to you.
• I'm fond of you.
• I'm lost without you.
• I'm nothing without you.
• I'm passionate about you.
• I'm thankful for you.
• I'm yours.
• Me and you. Always.
• My love is unconditional.
• Our love is invaluable.
• Take me, I'm yours.
• The thought of you brings a smile to my face.
• Ti tengu cara (to female) or Ti tengu caru (to male).

• Together, forever.
• We were meant to be together.
• You are a blessing in disguise.
• You are an angel from God.
• You are like a candle burning bright.
• You are my crush.
• You are my dear.
• You are my everything.
• You are my heart's desire.
• You are my life.
• You are my one and only.
• You are my one true love.
• You are my reason for living.
• You are my strength.
• You are my sunshine.
• You are my treasure.
• You are my world.
• You are precious.
• You are the light of my life.
• You are the reason I'm alive.
• You bring happiness to rainy days.
• You bring joy to my life.
• You cast a spell on me that can't be broken.
• You complete me.
• You drive me wild.
• You fill me with desire.
• You fill my heart.
• You give me wings to fly.
• You had me from hello.
• You hold the key to my heart.
• You inspire me.
• You intoxicate me.
• You lift me up to touch the sky.
• You light my flame.
• You light up my life.
• You make me hot.
• You make my heart skip a beat.
• You make my world a better place.
• You mean the world to me.
• You motivate me.
• You rock my world.
• You seduce me.
• You set my heart on fire.
• You simply amaze me.
• You stole my heart.
• You sweeten my sour days.
• You turn my world upside down.
• You turn the darkness into light.
• You're a dream come true.
• You're a gem.
• You're a twinkle in my eye.
• You're absolutely wonderful.
• You're all I want.
• You're as beautiful as a sunset.
• You're beautiful.
• You're charming.
• You're enchanting.
• You're heavenly.
• You're my angel.
• You're my perfect match.
• You're one in a million.
• You're priceless.
• You're sexy.
• You're the apple of my eye.
• You're the best thing that ever happened to me.
• You're the best.
• You're the diamond in the rough.
• You're the one for me.
• You're the one I've always wished for.

Know yourself like your own pockets!

Since we are young we search to know our limits. We are explorers! Of a certain age are already able to say what we are like, what we like, we have a system of values and beliefs. We are unique in our complexity in our versatility and is impossible to find two people who think/ act the same way.

Ancient inscription from the Temple of Apollo at Delphi says simply: "know yourself." Most people know to adulthood can say I am so and so and so. However, different people react differently in similar situations. Some people manage to bring to surface all the best and most beautiful in us and others who bring to the surface all that is bad and the ugly.

Exupery said that the man get to know himself when it's really in front of the obstacles. And one way or another, obstacles encountered at every step.

A few days ago I saw a card of pigeons, some birds with white, green feathers, beautiful. Happened but for his flight and show that I was revealed was wonderful. Did you knew that no matter how far you will take a pigeon, he always come back home, even from miles away? But the most important is that pigeons are having the same soul mate all their life!!!

We are faithful mirrors peers, but still seems unilateral. Ever met any person from one place to build a complete mirror? The one talking about art, with another about politics or sports, the other shares her most secret secrets. We behave in a way at home, another in public, at work, school, theater, etc.. But perhaps the souls wear pearls that I never talk about, that we do not show to anyone. May not know are there until we face certain situations.

What did you discover about yourself again lately? Ever get to know us completely?

My quote for life

I think most of us have one or more favorite quotes. Usually choose quotations that inspire or motivate us or simply reflects that loans or personal values.

At some point in life I felt the need for a quote to represent more than just an inspiration. Become a personal statement to me accountable to what is already important to me and to take action. Not to postpone my finding excuses for not becoming who I suggest and I felt good to get.

Most likely not only to me it is easier to realize something than to put into action. So I decided I
realize what is important to my life and I choose a quote that to convert it into personal statement.

When I say important, I mean the awareness of a thing in my life which influences all my life plans. So when I set the first motto (as story here) I left the idea of balance between all areas
of life, and I had personal statement:

Imagine life as a game in which five juggle the ball in the air. Call them: family, friends, work, faith and health.

The major difference between a single quote and a personal statement is your personal motto that helps me daily to remember what is important to me and do actions to reach or remain there. A quote defines some point, as appropriate:

Do not go before me, could not follow you / Do not go behind me, could not be the one who leads / Walk beside me and be my friend.
- Albert Camus - for me was and is the definition of leadership.

Yes, a motto is more: it is a free action.
It is both proof of recognition (awareness) to clear my place in life, but also setting the bar for going further. If a quotation rules apply in a plan of life, a motto applies to any plan of life.

Personal motto in life is now my blog in your email signature, sometimes on the desktop or printed and pasted on walls around the house or office next to the laptop somehow. Moreover, I look at it daily and wonder: "I do what I wanted to do? If not, why? "

In the end I wonder what quotes (personal statement) do you have in life right now and meant for you. Have helped you or still help?