Life as a cake

Well... a few persons from here know how much I love to make cakes... this is a habit from my mother (God bless her and always protect her)...

But today I want something special... to make a cake from the life... well you will alll understand after you will read the story from bellow...

A little boy is telling his Grandma how everything is going wrong — school, family problems, severe health problems, etc.

Meanwhile, Grandma is baking a cake. She asks the child if he would like a snack, which of course he does.

• "Here. Have some cooking oil."
• "Yuck," says the boy.
• "How about a couple of raw eggs?"
• "Gross, Grandma."
• "Would you like some flour then? Or maybe baking soda?"
• "Grandma, those are all yucky!"

To which the Grandma replies: "Yes, all those things seem bad all by themselves. But when they are put together in the right way, they make a wonderfully delicious cake!

Why God/ Allah created friends?

And after all had been created and was neatly arranged, HE looked down upon the people of the earth and said; "I cannot be there to comfort them in their sorrow, I can't be there to wrap my arms around them.I am here and yes, they will feel my presence but they'll need something more."

HE paused for a moment and then said: "I will create for them someone they can see and touch, I will make this person understanding and compassionate, thoughtful and caring.

She won't need to be overly intelligent, just sensitive to others needs. She will have a warm heart and gentle hands and all the time in the world, or so it will seem to those she comforts. Time will mean very little to her it will never be too late nor too early. She will be a very blessed individual and many will love her and come to her door often.
She will have to be something very special to take my place because I love my creations very much. I want them to have only the best for they will have many trials and will need a strong shoulder."

And so HE created this individual after much thought and time. Then HE said, "I must give her a name," HE paused for a moment more and then said:

"One of my greatest creations, I shall call her a Friend."

Ways to make her smile

1. Tell her she is beautiful.
2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . Even if its just for a second.
3. Hug her from behind.
4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
5. When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.
6. Recognize the small things . . . They usually mean the most.
7. If you are talking to another girl, when you're done, walk over and hug her and kiss her . . . Let her know she's yours and they are not.

Write her notes or call her just to say "Hi."

Introduce her to your friends . . . As your girlfriend

Play with her hair.

Pick her up (she loves it).

Get upset if another guy touches her (especially when she doesn't like it).

Make her laugh.

Let her fall asleep in your arms.

If she's mad at you, kiss her.

If you care about her, then (we all know this is a challenge) TELL HER.

Every guy should give their girl three things: a stuffed animal (she'll hug it everytime she goes to sleep), jewlery (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed). Also don't forget to bring her flowers or something special once in a while.

Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.

Look her in the eyes and smile.

Hang out with her on weekends (guys, this WILL NOT, I repeat WILL NOT kill you).

Kiss her in the rain (girls love this).

Kiss her just for the heck of it.

If your listening to music, let her listen too.

Remember her birthday and get her something, even if it's simple and inexpensive. It came from YOU. It means all the world to HER.

When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't! (women put a lot of thought and effort into your gifts, because we care about you and appreciate you; even if it's not exactly what you wanted!)

Always call her when you say you will. It may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her thinks you don't care. So call even if you can only talk for a minute.

The greatest pain in life...

The greatest pain in life is not to die, but to be ignored.

• To lose the person you love so much to another who doesn't care at all.
• To have someone you care so about so much throw a party... and not tell you about it.
• When your favorite person on earth neglects to invite you to his graduation.
• To have people think that you don't care.

The greatest pain in life, is not to die, but to be forgotten.

• To be left in the dust after another's great achievement.
• To never get a call from a friend, just saying "hi".
• When you show someone your innermost thoughts and they laugh in your face.
• For friends to always be too busy to console you when you need someone to lift your spirits.
• When it seems like the only person who cares about you, is you.

Life is full of pain, but does it ever get better?

• Will people ever care about each other, and make time for those who are in need?
• Each of us has a part to play in this great show we call life.
• Each of us has a duty to mankind to tell our friends we love them.
• If you do not care about your friends you will not be punished.
• You will simply be ignored... forgotten... as you have done to others.

A beautiful prayer

I asked God to take away my habit.  

God said, No. It is not for me to take away, but for you to give it up.

I asked God to grant me patience.  

God said, No. Patience is a byproduct of tribulations; it isn't granted, it is learned.

I asked God to give me happiness.
God said, No.   I give you blessings; Happiness is up to you.

I asked God to spare me pain.
God said, No. Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares   and brings you closer to me.

I asked God to make my spirit grow.
God said, No. You must grow on your own!, but I will prune you to make you fruitful.

I asked God for all things that I might  enjoy life. God said, No.  I will give you life, so that you may enjoy all things.

I ask God to help me LOVE others, as much as He loves me. God said... Ahhhh, finally you have the idea.