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Saturday 30 April 2011

What destroys a friendship?

A woman repeated a bit of gossip about a neighbor. Within a few days the whole community knew the story. The person it concerned was deeply hurt and offended. Later the woman responsible for spreading the rumor learned that it was completely untrue. She was very sorry and went to a wise old sage to find out what she could do to repair the damage.

"Go to the marketplace," he said, "and purchase a chicken, and have it killed. Then on your way home, pluck its feathers and drop them one by one along the road."
Although surprised by this advice, the woman did what she was told.
The next day the wise man said, "Now go and collect all those feathers you dropped yesterday and bring them back to me."

The woman followed the same road, but to her dismay, the wind had blown the feathers all away. After searching for hours, she returned with only three in her hand.

"You see," said the old sage, "it's easy to drop them, but it's impossible to get them back. So it is with gossip. It doesn't take much to spread a rumor, but once you do, you can never completely undo the wrong."

Don't wait to be happy... Just BE!


We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't old enough and we'll be more content when they are. After that, we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage. We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice vacation, when we retire. The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than right now. If not now, when?

Your life will always be filled with challenges. It's best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway. One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred D. Souza. He said, "For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin—real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, or a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life".

This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So, treasure every moment that you have and treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time...and remember that time waits for no one.

So...stop waiting until you finish school, until you go back to school, until you lose ten pounds, until you gain ten pounds, until you have kids, until your kids leave the house, until you start work, until you retire, until you get married, until you get divorced, until Friday night, until Sunday morning, until you get a new car or home, until your car or home is paid off, until spring, until summer, until fall, until winter, until you are off welfare, until the first or fifteenth, until your song comes on, until you've had a drink, until you've sobered up, until you die, or until you are born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy.

Happiness is a journey, not a destination.

Just remember: God/ Allah CARES

When you think you're alone
In the middle of the night,

When you've just had an awful dream
And you're shivering with fright,
You lie there alone and scared
And wonder if anyone cares.
If you look into your heart

You'll always find Me there.

Sometimes life is just too hard
And you need to get away.
You need someone to talk to
Who will listen to what you say,
Someone who will let you know
That they'll always be there.

When you can't find anyone
Just remember that I care.

When there is nowhere else to go
You can always come to
Me I promise that I'll be there
In your greatest hour of need.
I'm sure you can find Me

If you take the time for prayer.
When the whole world seems to hate you
Just remember that I care.

Friday 29 April 2011

Rules of life

  1. Never give yourself a haircut after three margaritas.
  2. You need only two tools. WD-40 and duct tape. If it doesn't move and it should, use WD-40. If it moves and shouldn't, use the tape.
  3. The five most essential words for a healthy, vital relationship are: "I apologize" and "You are right."
  4. Everyone seems normal until you get to know them.
  5. When you make a mistake, make amends immediately. It's easier to eat crow while it's still warm.
  6. The best advice that your mother ever gave you was. "Go! You might meet somebody!"
  7. If he/she says that you are too good for him/her—believe them.
  8. Learn to pick your battles; ask yourself, "Will this matter one year from now? How about one month? One week? One day?"
  9. Never pass up an opportunity to pee.
  10. If you woke up breathing, congratulations! You have another chance!
  11. Living well really is the best revenge. Being miserable because of a bad or former relationship just might mean that the other person was right about you.
  12. Work is good, but it's not that important.
  13. And finally, Be really nice to your friends. You never know when you are going to need them to empty your bedpan.

To learn that what is most valuable is not what they have in their lives, but who they have in their lives. To learn that it is not good to compare themselves to others. All will be judged individually on their own merits, not as a group on a comparison basis!

Life as a cake

Well... a few persons from here know how much I love to make cakes... this is a habit from my mother (God bless her and always protect her)...

But today I want something special... to make a cake from the life... well you will alll understand after you will read the story from bellow...


A little boy is telling his Grandma how everything is going wrong — school, family problems, severe health problems, etc.
Meanwhile, Grandma is baking a cake. She asks the child if he would like a snack, which of course he does.
  • "Here. Have some cooking oil."
  • "Yuck," says the boy.
  • "How about a couple of raw eggs?"
  • "Gross, Grandma."
  • "Would you like some flour then? Or maybe baking soda?"
  • "Grandma, those are all yucky!"
To which the Grandma replies: "Yes, all those things seem bad all by themselves. But when they are put together in the right way, they make a wonderfully delicious cake!

Why God/ Allah created friends?

And after all had been created and was neatly arranged, HE looked down upon the people of the earth and said; "I cannot be there to comfort them in their sorrow, I can't be there to wrap my arms around them.I am here and yes, they will feel my presence but they'll need something more."



HE paused for a moment and then said: "I will create for them someone they can see and touch, I will make this person understanding and compassionate, thoughtful and caring.
She won't need to be overly intelligent, just sensitive to others needs. She will have a warm heart and gentle hands and all the time in the world, or so it will seem to those she comforts. Time will mean very little to her it will never be too late nor too early. She will be a very blessed individual and many will love her and come to her door often.
She will have to be something very special to take my place because I love my creations very much. I want them to have only the best for they will have many trials and will need a strong shoulder."

And so HE created this individual after much thought and time. Then HE said, "I must give her a name," HE paused for a moment more and then said:

"One of my greatest creations, I shall call her a Friend."

Ways to make her smile

  1. Tell her she is beautiful.
  2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . Even if its just for a second.
  3. Hug her from behind.
  4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
  5. When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.
  6. Recognize the small things . . . They usually mean the most.
  7. If you are talking to another girl, when you're done, walk over and hug her and kiss her . . . Let her know she's yours and they are not.

  • Write her notes or call her just to say "Hi."


  • Introduce her to your friends . . . As your girlfriend

  • Play with her hair.

  • Pick her up (she loves it).

  • Get upset if another guy touches her (especially when she doesn't like it).

  • Make her laugh.

  • Let her fall asleep in your arms.

  • If she's mad at you, kiss her.

  • If you care about her, then (we all know this is a challenge) TELL HER.

  • Every guy should give their girl three things: a stuffed animal (she'll hug it everytime she goes to sleep), jewlery (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed). Also don't forget to bring her flowers or something special once in a while.

  • Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.

  • Look her in the eyes and smile.

  • Hang out with her on weekends (guys, this WILL NOT, I repeat WILL NOT kill you).

  • Kiss her in the rain (girls love this).

  • Kiss her just for the heck of it.

  • If your listening to music, let her listen too.

  • Remember her birthday and get her something, even if it's simple and inexpensive. It came from YOU. It means all the world to HER.

  • When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't! (women put a lot of thought and effort into your gifts, because we care about you and appreciate you; even if it's not exactly what you wanted!)

  • Always call her when you say you will. It may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her thinks you don't care. So call even if you can only talk for a minute.

    The greatest pain in life...



    The greatest pain in life is not to die, but to be ignored.
    • To lose the person you love so much to another who doesn't care at all.
    • To have someone you care so about so much throw a party... and not tell you about it.
    • When your favorite person on earth neglects to invite you to his graduation.
    • To have people think that you don't care.
    The greatest pain in life, is not to die, but to be forgotten.
    • To be left in the dust after another's great achievement.
    • To never get a call from a friend, just saying "hi".
    • When you show someone your innermost thoughts and they laugh in your face.
    • For friends to always be too busy to console you when you need someone to lift your spirits.
    • When it seems like the only person who cares about you, is you.
    Life is full of pain, but does it ever get better?
    • Will people ever care about each other, and make time for those who are in need?
    • Each of us has a part to play in this great show we call life.
    • Each of us has a duty to mankind to tell our friends we love them.
    • If you do not care about your friends you will not be punished.
    • You will simply be ignored... forgotten... as you have done to others.

    A beautiful prayer




    I asked God to take away my habit.  
    God said, No. It is not for me to take away, but for you to give it up.

    I asked God to grant me patience.  
    God said, No. Patience is a byproduct of tribulations; it isn't granted, it is learned.

    I asked God to give me happiness.
    God said, No.   I give you blessings; Happiness is up to you.

    I asked God to spare me pain.
    God said, No. Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares   and brings you closer to me.

    I asked God to make my spirit grow.
    God said, No. You must grow on your own!, but I will prune you to make you fruitful.

    I asked God for all things that I might  enjoy life. God said, No.  I will give you life, so that you may enjoy all things.

    I ask God to help me LOVE others, as much as He loves me. God said... Ahhhh, finally you have the idea.

    Sunday 24 April 2011

    Sham el Nessim Egypt Spring Festival - April 25

    More than a few Egyptian traditions today derive from very ancient times, including the holiday known as Sham el Nessim, which may have been celebrated as early as 4,500 years ago. For Egyptians, Sham el Nessim (Sham el Nisseem, Sham el Niseem), literally meaning ‘sniffing the breeze’, marks the beginning of the spring - celebrated on April 25. It falls immediately on the first Monday following the Coptic Easter and it was related to agriculture in ancient Egypt which contained fertility rites that were later attached to Christianity and the celebration of Easter. It is believed that the Egyptians were the first to celebrate this occasion. 


    Sham el Nessim seems to be a holiday as old as Egypt. According to the Egyptian Information Service, the name of the holiday is actually derived from the ancient Egyptian harvest season that was called "Shamo", also explaining that, according to Plutarch's annals, the ancient Egyptians used to offer salted fish, lettuce and onions to their deities on this day. Dr. Mohamed Ibrahim Bakr, former chairman of the Antiquities Authority, explains that:

    "The spring festival coincided with the vernal equinox, and the ancients imagined that that day represented the beginning of creation. The date of Sham El Nessim was not fixed. Rather, it was announced every year on the night before the feast at the foot of the Great Pyramid. The feast of 'Shamo,' means 'renewal of life' which was later corrupted during the Coptic age to 'shamm' (smelling or breathing) and the word 'nessim' (breeze) was added. The ancient Egyptians first celebrated the feast of Shamo in 2700 BC, towards the end of the 3rd Dynasty." In his book, Manners and Customs of the Modern Egyptians, W.W. Lane wrote in 1834: "

    A custom termed 'Shemm en-Nessem' (or the Smelling of the Zephyr) is observed on the first day of the Khamaseen. Early in the morning of this day, many persons, especially women, break an onion, and smell it; and in the course of the forenoon many of the citizens of Cairo ride or walk a little way into the country, or go in boats, generally northward, to take the air, or, as they term it, smell the air, which on that day they believe to have a wonderfully beneficial effect. The greater number dine in the country or on the river. The 'ulama have their 'shemm en-nessem' at a fixed period of the solar year, the first three days of the spring quarter, corresponding with the Persion 'Now-roz," called by the Arabs 'Norooz'."
    Tomorrow, the early morning will bring out  millions of Egyptians on Sham el Nessim who will crowd the open green spaces even if that means ending up sitting on grassy patches next to roads, due to the scarcity of public parks and open areas in Cairo, as in other big cities from Egypt. Families start at dawn preparing their food, then take their blankets with them and enjoy the breeze of spring.

    Termis (lupin seeds)

    Sham el Nessim is also celebrated by eating traditional foods. It is associated with several types of food that are eaten together yet are much diversified. Fiseekh (Salted fish), boiled colored eggs, termis (lupin seeds), and green onions are some of the types of food eaten on this day, each backed by a different  myth. It was believed that offerings of fish were made to the ancient gods to ensure a good harvest. Salted fish symbolized to the ancient Egyptians fertility and welfare. Fish were abundant when the waters receded from the Nile flood, leaving them trapped in natural pools, and easily caught. 
    On this day, the Egyptians celebrate Sham el Nessim by eating a variety of slated, smelly fish known as fiseekh (feseekh). “The fiseekh is prepared in a traditional process that is considered almost an art form. The process of preparing the fish is passed from one generation to another to insure its quality. The types of fish used are sardines mackerel and anchovies. Their prices  range from 15 to 20 Egyptian pounds,” said Monir Abdel Salam, a 38 year fasakhani ‘salt fish specialist’ in the Giza district.

    Many people believe it is not healthy to eat fiseekh and have removed it from the list of food or have replaced it by tuna from a can. “It is too smelly. You can’t even get the smell out of your hands, plus it is rotten and hospitals are always full of poisoned people who have eaten bad fiseekh,” said Ihsan Mostafa, 42, mother of three. “It is especially bad for a child. That’s why I’m keen on making a tuna salad for them instead,” added Mostafa.
    About fiseekh during Sham el Nessim, Al-Ahram reports that:

    "Fiseekh is at the centre of things: Grey Mullet is caught, piled high in containers, and left out until distended. When sufficient evidence of its putrification is available, salt is added and the fish are left to pickle for a few more months. And voilà, the fish that Egyptians are willing to literally die for is made. It is no wonder that tens meet their death every year during Sham Al-Nessim -- usually as a result of botulism contracted from the smelly culprits. Every year, the authorities impounded approximately 38 tonnes of spoiled fish and arrested nine Cairo shop-keepers for selling bad fish. Local papers ran articles on how to identify clean fiseekh -- check the flesh around the backbone and make sure the smell is not too pungent -- and how much to eat. Nationwide, centres for the treatment of poisoning announced a 48- hour emergency. Vaccines to treat botulism were also distributed nationwide and at reduced cost. Unfortunately, 12 upstanding Egyptian citizens died of fiseekh poisoning anyway.

    " Others disagree. “The fish can smell bad, but I assure you that it is one hundred percent safe to eat. Salt is used as a way to dry fish and preserve it. There are no additives used and the whole process is done by hand. We don’t need machines. We Egyptians are good at  preserving. Our mummies are still here from 4500 years ago,” added Abdel Salam. Well, ok, but mummies are not very appetizing either :P :P. 

    Egyptians along the Nile getting ready for the holiday

    Eggs for the pharos were dyed and hung in temples as emblems of regenerative life. They  not only symbolize new life, but they serve as small art works to enjoy at the picnics. Dyed eggs from pharaonic times are a direct predecessor of our Easter eggs today. “This is the best part for the whole family. We usually go to the Cairo Zoo in the early morning but the first thing we do is color the eggs. We use water colors and then put them in the sun to dry so they will be ready for us to enjoy. My four year old daughter is the most talented of my children at painting these,” said Mostafa. 
    Green onions also seem to have a special significance in the occasion. It has been found that in ancient times, onions were stuffed in the eyes of mummies and drawn on tomb walls. To the modern Egyptian they served a different purpose, “They keep the evil eye away and prevent envy,” said Sherif Momtaz, 45, nurse and Ihsan’s husband. “They are also good for one's health,” added Momtaz.
    Dr. Bakr also explains that scallions (onions), first appeared on the festive menu at the end of the 6th Dynasty, mentioned in papyrus relating to legends of Old Memphis:

    "It is said that one of the pharaohs had an only child who was so much loved by the people. The young prince was struck down by an unknown disease and bed-ridden for years, during which time the people abstained from celebrating festivals in sympathy for the king and his son.

    The king summoned the archpriest of the Temple of Oun, who diagnosed the boy's sickness as having been caused by evil spirits. The priest ordered that a ripe spring onion be placed under the patient's head. The priest sliced a second onion and put it on the boy's nose so that he would breathe in the vapors. The papyrus text says that the prince soon recovered and festivities were held in the palace to mark the occasion which coincided with the beginning of spring season. As a goodwill gesture for their king, the people hung bunches of scallion over the doors of their houses, which explains how it came to be a main item on the table at Sham El Nessim."

    Lettuce represents the feeling of the hopefulness at the beginning of the spring.
    Islamic sources  do not encourage Muslims to participate in the holiday, which is seen as related more to Christianity and is not considered to be a religious holiday of that faith. Yet, just as Halloween is certainly based on a pagan tradition, that does not stop Christians from having fun on that day. Lane (Manners and Customs of the Modern Egyptians) tells us that:

    "It is remarkable that the Muslims of Egypt observe certain customs of a religious and superstitious nature at particular periods of the almanac of the Copts, and even according to the same system, calculate the times of certain changes of the weather. Thus they calculate the period of the 'khamaseen' when hot southerly winds are of frequent occurrence to commence on the day immediately following the Coptic festival of Easter Sunday, and to terminate on the Day of the Pentecost (or Whitsunday), an interval of forty-nine days."

    Hence, even today, many Muslims take the holiday as an excuse to celebrate and break the routine of the week. “We all know that it is not a Muslim feast, but that doesn’t mean I can’t take my children out to celebrate and see other people celebrating and having fun. I would be cruel to my children if everyone they know is celebrating while they are at home upset,” said Momtaz.

    The festival differs according to the area. In Alexandria people go to Montazah Palace which opens its gardens to the public. They go there to celebrate the display and scent of almost 20 thousand types of plants, including some hundred rare ones. The day also includes folkloric shows by dancing troupes and military music parades.  It should be noted that many hotels in Egypt provide specials for this holiday, so it can be a fun time for all, including tourists.